How to make someone fall in love with you

One of the most common questions I get asked here is “how do I make someone fall in love with me?”

Here’s how. It’s not easy, but it is possible. And if you’re able to do everything on this list, then you probably will succeed at making them fall for you. But know that by the time you’ve done everything on this list, you’ll probably already be in a relationship with them anyways so there’s no point in trying to seduce them anymore.

Seduction starts early. If you get approached by someone romantically, it’s probably because they thought you were cute or attractive and therefore made an effort to get to know you better. When you’re first getting to know someone, you can’t really expect it to be easy. The only way you’ll get their number is if they think that there’s a chance in hell of there being a relationship between the two of you in the future.

The problem with waiting for them to approach you in person is that by this point, they may already have a partner. This is why it’s recommended to suggest hanging out first. If they turn you down, don’t take it too personally because they may just want to stay in tonight or they could have other pressing matters going on.

And if your feelings are really mutual and you’ve been turned down multiple times by the same person, then you might want to make an attempt to not be around them as much. Because if they’ve seen you enough times and know that you like them, then your feelings will become less and less ‘mysterious’.

Don’t immediately confess your undying love for someone after seeing them one time. It’s best to get questions out of the way first to avoid awkward silence. And try not to pry into their love life either, because no one likes having their privacy invaded.

Spontaneous compliments are fantastic for boosting someone’s self-esteem and helping them feel good about themselves. Complimenting something they actually want to hear is necessary so that it feels more genuine than just saying something to make them feel better.

Don’t be afraid of asking questions as well as answering their own, but avoid sharing too much information about yourself because it comes across as making the other person less significant and can come off as clingy or needy.

People always prefer a unique date rather than going to a dinner and a movie. Even if they turn out to be a complete bore, you can always fill in awkward silences with humorous anecdotes about yourself.

Be confident when you’re around them and know that they would never want to hurt someone so emotionally sound as you. It’s best not to have too many insecurities because these will manifest themselves in the worst possible situations and come off as unattractive.

If you’re in the middle of a conversation and see that they’re distracted, take them away from whatever it is that’s holding their attention so they can focus on what you have to say instead. If someone thinks that you don’t care about them because you’ve given up so easily, then they’ll lose respect for you and may think of you as a pushover.

Don’t give up if it seems like absolutely nothing is working. It’s almost impossible to remain patient when the fruit of your labor isn’t ripening as quickly as you’d like, but stay determined and don’t let them see that you’re impatient because they’ll just get annoyed at your desperation.

If you’re truly serious about making someone fall in love with you, then try your best to uphold these suggestions and you’ll be able to notice them falling for you at first sight.

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